Turning Challenging Behaviours Into Connection
Joanne Jones 
Turn challenging behaviors into connection by understanding needs, staying calm, and responding with empathy to foster trust and growth.
Turning Challenging Behaviours Into Connection
Challenging behaviours can feel overwhelming, but they’re opportunities in disguise. When approached with empathy, these moments can lead to deeper understanding and connection with your child.
- Why Behaviours Are Challenges
Children often lack the skills to express big emotions, leading to outbursts.
Understanding behaviours as unmet needs changes how we respond.
- Steps to Turn Behaviour Into Connection
Pause: Take a moment to regulate your own emotions before responding.
Acknowledge Feelings: “I see you’re feeling really upset right now.”
Offer Support: Co-regulate by staying calm and guiding them through the moment
Challenging behaviours aren’t a sign of failure—they’re a chance to connect with your child. By staying present and empathetic, you’ll build trust and help them develop the tools to express themselves.